Never knew that time slipped so fast. It was months ago since I updated my blog. Today I just don't know why I have the urge to express all my feelings in my blog. Maybe because Facebook hasn't got enough space for me to do so that I ended up here?
At times I envy those sweet couples who have everything in their lives. A smooth relationship, memorable love life and many more sweetest thing a couple would have lust for. Why is there always a 3rd party interfering with our relationship. Both of my friends have this problem and their love life went upside down due to that. I'm no exception to this stigmatic irony. Why do this people exist anyways? Is it so nice or challenging to snatch someone's sweet memories, someone's sacrifice and someone's genuine love? It is such a torment for us to maintain our relationship just to avoid the person we love falling into YOUR hands. Our slightest mistake may cost our love life to vanish in an instant, with everything that we hold dear to slipping through our grasp. Some people who have a very smooth relationship may not feel what we underwent, but trust me, the feeling is beyond tolerable. Protecting the one you love is forever a vow, but how long can you protect when all your strength are drained just to prevent this from happening? We too are humans with finite strength and life.
It's never easy to let go of someone you love, especially when you know they are blinded by these people. I'm not saying that your partner is useless because he or she is not loyal. But think about it, when love comes into mind, any mortal would be blinded and being misled. Some people may think that it's fine as long they are happy with that other person. But what if that person treated the one you love far from worst than the way you treated him/her? Remorseful? It's all too late and you will carry that guilt for the rest of your life. It's an irony to see that the one we loved being illy treated all because you willingly let him/her go. Is this what we call fear? Fear of losing the one we love? But if that person treated him/her much better than you do, of course we will be relieved knowing that it's for their sake. But have we ever appreciated or valued something which we took forcefully? Just think about it and be honest with yourselves, have we ever appreciated anything in our life that is not derived from our own hard work and determination? For instance our family? So how'd you expect that person willingly sacrifice for him/her which that person took for granted? We understand him/her more than they do because we started off from scratch, from normal individuals into loving couples. So who else could truly understand our partners? Even our parents wouldn't understand, but could only understand us, their child, because they sacrificed for us.
About an hour ago I read an article posted by someone in Facebook. The story began with a family of 3 on the urge of falling apart. The husband no longer loves his wife anymore and decided to have a divorce for another girl. Before the divorce, the wife wrote a divorce condition saying that the husband can only divorce after a month and needing him to do certain weird things during that one month. The wife wanted her husband to carry her out from their bedroom in the morning everyday for that one month. It sounded like a joke, but it really made her husband come to his senses. Everyday the husband carried her out and their son clapped happily thinking that his parents are very sweet. This made him guilty for wanting a divorce. But the guiltiest part of all is when he carries his wife. The husband felt that she became lighter and lighter each day, and only began to know that she lost a lot of weight. With every carry, the husband felt the intimacy growing stronger and stronger each day, but at the very last day, the wife passed away when the husband decided not to divorce anymore. It was all too late! But why the wife wanted him to carry? It's because it was the sweetest memory that the husband ever gave to her, carrying her into the bridal and also carrying her into his house when they first got married.
Sometimes our words cannot portray our love but only our actions could. It's because of the memories that we give and get, the sacrifices that we made for one another and the love to each other that enables a couple to last to their last breath. Those who never went through all of this will never truly understand what love is, and even more they don't have the rights to snatch other people's happiness! People may think that the things that I wrote here are absurd due to my young age, but please ask yourself, have you ever stepped into OUR shoes, the shoes of someone who is about to lose their love ones to another person? Only after you've asked yourselves that rhetorical question then judge the maturity of my thoughts. I can assure you, you'll be shocked.....
What my friends said is true, maybe it was true all along that these people are nothing but mere underlings who could not get what they wanted but to use snatch as their last resort. And the worst part is that they snatch not for the greater good, but to ruin other people's happiness forged from endless tears and unflinching loyalty just to reach it - Love.
-Over and Out-
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